"The more important domains to consider are personality and values, and when it comes to personality, the key question is how does your potential partner handle stress."
“...in order for therapy to be effective, both people are going to have to tolerate learning something about themselves they don’t already know. No one escapes therapy with their self-image completely intact. This is a good thing. Of course, just being alive in the world with other people also invites us to see ourselves as others see us. But therapy [...]